English Conversation Practice – Discussing the Influence of Books on Personal Growth and Perspective


Sophie: Hey, Nathan! How’s it going?

Nathan: Hi, Sophie! I’m doing well, thanks. Just finished reading a book—what about you?

Sophie: Oh, nice! What did you read?

Nathan: It was Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. It really made me reflect on life and purpose. Have you ever read it?

Sophie: No, but I’ve heard great things about it. Isn’t it about finding meaning even in the hardest situations?

Nathan: Exactly. Frankl talks about his experiences in concentration camps and how focusing on meaning helped him survive. It’s powerful stuff.

Sophie: That sounds intense but inspiring. Do you think books like that can genuinely change someone’s outlook on life?

Nathan: Absolutely. Books have this way of planting seeds in your mind—ideas that grow over time and shape how you see the world.

Sophie: I agree. For example, when I read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, it taught me to embrace uncertainty and trust the journey.

Nathan: That’s such a good one. The idea of pursuing your “Personal Legend” resonates with so many people. Did it influence any decisions in your life?

Sophie: Definitely. After reading it, I quit my stable job to pursue freelance writing. It wasn’t easy, but the book gave me courage to take risks.

Nathan: Wow, that’s bold. And fulfilling, I imagine. Sometimes all it takes is a story or idea to push us out of our comfort zones.

Sophie: Right. What about you? Has a book ever inspired you to make a big change?

Nathan: Not as dramatic as quitting a job, but Atomic Habits by James Clear transformed how I approach goals. Instead of aiming for massive changes, I focus on small, consistent actions.

Sophie: That’s smart. Small habits add up over time. Did you start applying those principles in your daily routine?

Nathan: Yes, and it’s been game-changing. For instance, I started journaling every morning, which helps me stay mindful and organized.

Sophie: Journaling is fantastic. I’ve kept a gratitude journal for years—it grounds me and reminds me of the positives, even on tough days.

Nathan: Gratitude journals are underrated. They shift your mindset toward abundance rather than scarcity.

Sophie: Exactly. Speaking of shifting mindsets, do you think fiction or non-fiction has a greater impact on personal growth?

Nathan: Hmm… both, I think. Non-fiction provides practical advice and knowledge, while fiction lets you explore emotions and perspectives through characters’ journeys.

Sophie: Agreed. Fiction often feels more relatable because it taps into universal human experiences. Like, when I read To Kill a Mockingbird, it deepened my understanding of empathy and justice.

Nathan: Such a classic. Atticus Finch’s wisdom still resonates today. Do you prefer fiction or non-fiction yourself?

Sophie: I lean toward fiction, but I dabble in self-help and psychology books too. Balance is key. What about you?

Nathan: Same here—I mix them up. Lately, though, I’ve been gravitating toward memoirs. They’re like novels based on real lives, so they combine storytelling with authenticity.

Sophie: Memoirs are incredible. One of my favorites is Educated by Tara Westover. Her resilience blew me away.

Nathan: Oh, yes! I read that last year. It made me appreciate education in a whole new light and realize how transformative learning can be.

Sophie: Exactly. Stories like hers remind us how privileged we are to access resources others might not have.

Nathan: True. On another note, do you think reading helps build emotional intelligence?

Sophie: Absolutely. When you immerse yourself in someone else’s perspective—even if it’s fictional—you develop empathy and better communication skills.

Nathan: Well said. I remember reading A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara—it wrecked me emotionally, but it also opened my eyes to trauma and healing.

Sophie: That book is heavy, but it’s unforgettable. It forces you to confront difficult emotions and relationships in ways most books don’t.

Nathan: Totally. Heavy books aren’t always easy to get through, but they leave a lasting impression. Do you ever struggle to finish a book?

Sophie: All the time. If a book doesn’t grab me within the first few chapters, I tend to lose interest. Life’s too short for boring reads!

Nathan: (laughs) Same here. Though sometimes I’ll give dense or slow-paced books a second chance if I know they’re worth it.

Sophie: Smart move. Some classics require patience but reward you later. Like 1984 by George Orwell—it felt dry at first, but its message hit hard by the end.

Nathan: Oh, yes. Its warnings about surveillance and authoritarianism are eerily relevant today.

Sophie: Scarily so. Books often act as mirrors reflecting society’s flaws—and strengths.

Nathan: Exactly. That’s why diverse voices matter in literature. Reading authors from different backgrounds broadens your worldview.

Sophie: Couldn’t agree more. Works by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie or Khaled Hosseini introduced me to cultures and struggles I knew little about.

Nathan: Same here. Their stories stick with you because they’re raw and honest. Have you joined any book clubs to discuss these kinds of books?

Sophie: Yes, I’m part of an online group. It’s fun to hear how others interpret the same story differently.

Nathan: That’s awesome. Diverse opinions enrich discussions. I’ve thought about starting a club myself but haven’t taken the leap yet.

Sophie: You should! Even informal meetings over coffee (or Zoom) can spark great conversations.

Nathan: Good idea. Maybe I’ll suggest it to friends who love reading. By the way, what’s the last book that surprised you?

Sophie: Probably Circe by Madeline Miller. I expected it to be entertaining, but it ended up being deeply empowering—a story about owning your power and voice.

Nathan: That sounds amazing. I’ll add it to my list. What draws you to certain genres or themes?

Sophie: Lately, I’m drawn to strong female protagonists and magical realism. Escaping into imaginative worlds feels refreshing.

Nathan: Interesting. I gravitate toward philosophical or historical themes—they challenge me to think critically.

Sophie: See? We all find value in different types of stories. That diversity keeps reading exciting.

Nathan: Completely agree. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Sophie. This conversation reminded me why I love books so much.

Sophie: Likewise, Nathan. Your recommendations sound intriguing—I’ll check them out soon.

Nathan: Awesome. Let’s swap updates after we’ve read each other’s picks!

Sophie: Deal! Talk soon, Nathan.

Nathan: Take care, Sophie!

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