English Conversation Practice – Discussing the Influence of Social Media on Relationships and Communication in Modern Society


[Scene: A quiet café in Toronto, Canada. Two friends, Mia and Noah, are seated by the window, sipping tea.]

Mia: Hey, Noah, I’ve been thinking a lot about how social media shapes our relationships. Do you feel like it brings people closer or pushes them apart?

Noah: That’s such an interesting question. I think it depends on how we use it. For some, it helps maintain connections over long distances, but for others, it creates superficial interactions.

Mia: True. Like, I love being able to see updates from old friends who live far away, but sometimes it feels like we’re just scrolling past each other instead of truly connecting.

Noah: Exactly. It’s easy to fall into that trap—liking posts without engaging deeply. Have you ever felt like social media makes you compare your life to others’ highlight reels?

Mia: All the time. Seeing perfectly curated photos of vacations, achievements, or even relationships can make me feel inadequate. Does that happen to you too?

Noah: Definitely. But then I remind myself that those posts only show one side of someone’s life. Real life is messy, and no one shares that on Instagram.

Mia: So true. Still, it’s hard not to get caught up in it. Do you think social media has changed how we communicate with each other in person?

Noah: Absolutely. Sometimes I notice people glued to their phones during gatherings instead of talking face-to-face. It’s like we’re physically present but mentally elsewhere.

Mia: Right? I’ve been guilty of that too. There was this dinner last week where everyone kept checking their notifications instead of having actual conversations.

Noah: Same here. It’s ironic—we have all these tools to stay connected, yet they often distract us from meaningful interaction. What do you think could help fix that?

Mia: Maybe setting boundaries, like putting phones away during meals or meetings. Or even scheduling “tech-free” hours every day. Do you do anything like that?

Noah: Not consistently, but I try to take breaks from my phone on weekends. It’s refreshing to focus on what’s happening around me instead of what’s online.

Mia: That sounds nice. I should give it a shot. By the way, do you think social media affects romantic relationships differently than friendships?

Noah: Hmm, good point. In romantic relationships, jealousy or mistrust can arise if partners spend too much time interacting with others online. But it can also strengthen bonds if used positively—like sharing memories together.

Mia: Yeah, I’ve seen both sides. Some couples post sweet messages for each other, while others argue over excessive screen time. Balance seems key again.

Noah: Totally agree. Speaking of balance, do you think younger generations handle social media better than older ones? They grew up with it, after all.

Mia: Not necessarily. While they might be more tech-savvy, they’re also more exposed to its pressures early on. Cyberbullying and FOMO (fear of missing out) seem especially tough for teens.

Noah: That’s so true. I read somewhere that constant validation-seeking through likes and comments can harm self-esteem. It’s scary to think about the impact on kids today.

Mia: Absolutely. Parents need to guide their children on using social media responsibly. At the same time, platforms themselves should prioritize mental health features.

Noah: Agreed. On a lighter note, though, social media does have its perks. Remember when we reconnected thanks to Facebook? We hadn’t spoken in years!

Mia: Oh, right! Social media definitely helped bridge that gap. Without it, who knows if we’d have found each other again. So it’s not all bad.

Noah: Exactly. It’s about intentionality—using it as a tool to enhance real-life connections rather than replace them. Do you follow any trends or challenges online?

Mia: Occasionally, but I don’t go out of my way to participate. I prefer observing from afar. What about you? Are you into TikTok dances or viral memes?

Noah: Haha, not really. I enjoy watching funny videos now and then, but I’m not much of a creator. Though, I did attempt one of those cooking challenge videos once—it was a disaster!

Mia: Oh no, tell me more! What happened?

Noah: Well, the recipe looked simple enough, but halfway through, I realized I was missing half the ingredients. Let’s just say it ended with burnt toast and laughter.

Mia: That’s hilarious! Cooking fails are the best kind of fails. Maybe next time stick to something easier, like boiling water.

Noah: Good advice. Anyway, switching topics slightly—do you think social media will continue evolving in ways that benefit society, or will it mostly amplify problems?

Mia: Tough call. Ideally, it’ll evolve to promote positivity and inclusivity. But realistically, issues like misinformation and addiction won’t disappear overnight.

Noah: True. Regulation and education will play big roles in shaping its future. Hopefully, users will also become more mindful of how they engage with it.

Mia: Fingers crossed. One thing’s for sure—social media isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. Adapting to its changes is part of modern life.

Noah: Couldn’t agree more. Thanks for the chat, Mia. This gave me a lot to reflect on.

Mia: Likewise, Noah. Let’s catch up again soon—maybe offline next time!

Noah: Deal! Until then, take care.

[They smile, gather their things, and leave the café as the scene ends.]


End of Conversation

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